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Assisting the Elderly and the Importance of Communication

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On the latest segment of “Caring for Seniors” Judy talks to guest hosts Eva Castillo-Turgeon and Daniel Maradiaga about assisting the elderly and importance of communication. They start by discussing the origins of Judy’s French last name and the discrimination that French people have faced in New Hampshire. This transitions into who Judy hires for Seniors Helping Seniors NH, and how she tries to have bilingual caregivers to help the connection between client and caregiver.

Assisting the Elderly and the Importance of Communication

Assisting the Elderly and the Importance of Communication

 

Eva pointed out that we are have one of the largest population of elderly in the country. Judy agrees and says that the numbers are growing so high that there are not enough caregivers. She says she is always looking for caregivers.

But, she wants ones that understand that the client has had a vivid life and want to care for them genuinely. She wants people who can give love, give respect, and want to grow closer to the clients.

People are living longer and we have people living to a 103 years old when we thought 80 was old! It’s important to listen to their stories because we will never hear these stories again. 1 in 9 people will have dementia once they hit 65, when they get to the 80, 1 in 3 people will have it.

People need to understand that this is a progressive diagnosis. When people hear dementia, they think of Alzheimer’s which is the most common form of dementia. But there are over seventy different types of dementia, if you can believe it!

While dementia can affect how someone talks and moves and finishes tasks, it does not affect how they can have a relationship with someone. They can see and sense our emotions. They can mimic our emotions, so if a daughter is frustrated then the mother will get frustrated as well because they sense something is wrong. The key is to connect to people, to see them, not just care for them.

Check out the whole segment here.

Entering Into Assisted Living

Entering Into Assisted Living

This week Judy and Rich discuss the ins and outs of entering into assisted living. As a senior it can be very difficult to go from your own home to someplace new where you have less independence. For family members, it can be difficult to help ease the transition for their parent. For some, they have to enter assisted living because their home can’t be modified enough to keep them safe, for others, it’s location. They might be too far from friends, family, and places they need to go.

Entering Into Assisted Living

Entering Into Assisted Living

 

If the move is too quick, it can cause confusion and anger from the senior being moved. Like Rich said, it’s like a plant getting uprooted. They want to feel like they are part of the decision to move.

Even the process of packing can become very emotional. It’s important to remember they are going through 50 or 60 years of memories and have to decide what stays and what goes. Moving can even cause Relocation Stress Syndrome or Transfer Trauma and even a form of identity theft when they move.

All they have is their name, there aren’t memories of how they lived their life, how many kids they have, and they stop feeling like an individual. They lose their story and to retell it can be exhausting.

There are changes that can happen in the beginning of the move, there can be sleeplessness, increase rate of pain, anger and irritability, anxiety, and weight gain or loss.

Sometimes no matter how much money a community spends on food, there will be complaints about the food. It may be because taste buds change, but other times it’s just because they are unhappy about their situation. Meals are important because it becomes part of their daily routine, and can help them make them feel more at home.

To reduce the anxiety with the move, bring them into the decisions: take them to communities. Check out meals. Ask the communities how they can minimize identity theft, see what works for your parents specifically. Visit on schedule tours and visit by surprise to see what it’s like when they no one knows you are coming.