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What’s Good About Growing Old

Your Attitude Affects Your Health as You Age

What’s good about growing old? Well, a University of Illinois study found that older air traffic controllers excelled at their cognitively taxing jobs. Despite the fact that they had losses in short-term memory and visual spatial processing. This means that while older minds may have trouble with mental skills, they can gain more abilities in other areas.

What's Good About Growing Old

What’s Good About Growing Old

 

Older people also learned how to deal with social conflicts better. For a 2010 study, researchers at the University of Michigan presented “Dear Abby” letters to 200 people and asked for their advice.

Subjects in their 60s were better at picturing different points of view, thinking of multiple resolutions, and suggesting compromises.

Older people handle losses better than younger people as well. They also are happier, less angry, and have less stress.

Read more about these studies here.

Criminals Steal $37 Billion from America’s Seniors

Wells Fargo Bank Branch Manager Admits to Stealing from Seniors

Around 5 million seniors are targeted by scammers. They’re stealing from America’s seniors to the point of $37 billion a year. They can also be targeted by relatives that want to take advantage of them as well. The number of victims is increasing as baby boomers retire and their ability to manage trillions of dollars in personal assets diminish.

Criminals Steal $37 Billion from America's Seniors

Stealing from America’s Seniors

 

For every case of theft that is reported to authorities, there can be as many as 44 that are not.

The U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention brought attention to elder exploitation as a public health problem in a 2016 report. The report cites research done by Mark Lachs. He did this research 20 years ago.

He is now co-chief of the Division of Geriatrics and Palliative Medicine at Weill Cornell Medicine and New York-Presbyterian Hospital. He says that elder abuse victims, including financial exploitation, die 3 times faster than those who haven’t been abused.

How It Can Happen

 

In many cases, it can seem like the victim gave consent, but that is due to manipulation or deception. Seniors that are targeted the most are ones diagnosed with Alzheimer’s or dementia.

This is because it takes longer to sort out what is truth and what is false. It also causes the senior a lot emotional distress because they are constantly questioning themselves.

The key to getting these cases solved is proving incapacity. Anyone can give money to whoever they want, but when they have cognitive impairments, they may no longer have the ability to judge whether that’s a good idea or not. They might not even understand the consequences of what they’ve done.

Not Enough Funding to Solve Cases

 

The biggest hurtle right now is getting funding for institutions who are trying to prevent senior exploitation. The Elder Justice Act, which is the first comprehensive legislation to address elder abuse, was enacted in 2010.

Only, it wasn’t funded until 2015, even then, it was only given $4 million. It was supposed be closer to $1 billion.

Though things are getting better. In February 2018, the Justice Department announced “the largest coordinated sweep of elder fraud cases in history.” They charged more than 250 defendants with schemes that caused 1 million elderly Americans to lose more than $500 million. This is part of the ongoing effort to stop people from stealing from America’s seniors.

Read more here.

Reinventing Yourself Abroad

What Age Does Your Self-Esteem Peak?

Ever been on a vacation and think about staying there forever, start a whole new life? For many American retirees that’s exactly what they do. Here’s why it might be fun to try reinventing yourself abroad.

Reinventing Yourself Abroad

Reinventing Yourself Abroad

Living abroad for a long period of time can foster new inner growth. Being in an unfamiliar terrain where you can’t act like you usually do, will cause some self reflection to happen. It can also give you a new or bigger perspective. Plus it’s always fun to interact with different cultures.

The same goes with interacting with new people. Many expats say it’s freeing to be able to create a new self that is unburdened by their past. It’s like being the new kid in school where no one knows you, so you can be anyone. Plus these new people may unlock parts of yourself that you didn’t know you had.

On a more practical note, it is easier and cheaper to live abroad, this means less stress and more time for fun. Maybe you can go back to that hobby that got left behind.

Check out the whole article here.

98 Year Old Mother Moved into the Same Community to Take Care of her Son

98 Year Old Mother Moved into the Same Community as her Son

As a wise woman named Ada Keating, says, “You never stop being a mum.” This is spectacularly true for Ada, who has an 80-year-old son named Tom. Tom is in an assisted living community, and Keating decided she was going with him. The 98-year-old mother moved into the same community as her son.

98 Year Old Mother Moved into the Same Community as her Son

98 Year Old Mother Moved into the Same Community as Her Son

 

Tom moved into Moss View because he needed more support. This can be a hard decision for some people. If you are having trouble bringing it up to your loved one, check out 7 Ways to Start the Senior Living Talk.

Ada, a widow, and mother of three other kids followed him. They enjoy playing games together and watching TV. Ada wishes Tom a good morning and good night every day.

Tom is happy to be able to spend more time with his mom and loves to give her big hugs. Age does not stop Ada from occasionally scolding Tom and telling him to behave himself.

The duo is popular on the internet as their sweet story spreads. This duo goes to prove that a mother’s love is never-ending.

Read the whole article here.