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Eating Well to Age Well

7 Way You Can Help Prevent a Heart Attack

We all want to continue to feel good and healthy as we get older but sometimes it’s hard. Eating well to age well is important but there are so many tips, diets, and trends that it can be overwhelming. We found some simple tips that should be easy to implement.

Eating Well to Age Well

Eating Well to Age Well

 

The first has to do with weight loss. It’s been well established that being overweight is bad for your health, but did you know that just losing 5 percent of your body weight will vastly improve your health. By losing 5 percent of your body weight, you will reduce your risk for diabetes and heart disease, and improve metabolic function in liver, fat, and muscle tissue.

Eating less processed meat can greatly improve your health. It’s the level of sodium and chemical preservatives that make them so bad for your health. Processed meats have about 4 times more sodium and 50 percent more preservatives than unprocessed meats.

They use sodium and preservatives to make the meat last longer. This can increase the chances of heart disease by 42 percent and diabetes by 19 percent. Processed meat includes hot dogs, sausages, and deli meat. It’s still safe to have unprocessed meat though.

Speaking of processed foods, you should also try to avoid processed food and drinks. By doing this, it will eliminate the amount of sugar you eat. A basic rule to avoid processed food is if it comes in a package that has to be ripped open, it’s processed. Think chips, fast food, and frozen pizza.

There are exceptions to this rule, some unprocessed food like nuts and eggs are packaged and are good for you. So you can also check the ingredients and if there is only one, then it’s healthy. By cutting out processed food you will be eating more fruits and vegetables. Blueberries have been know to cut down on blood pressure and a lower risk of diabetes. Other dark veggies and fruits that are helpful are cherries, spinach, and kale.

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Problems with Detecting Sarcasm Could be a Sign of Dementia

Problems with Detecting Sarcasm Could be a Sign of Dementia

Are you a sarcastic person? Have you ever been sarcastic and someone took you seriously? There’s a study out that says that having problems with detecting sarcasm could be a sign of dementia.

Problems with Detecting Sarcasm Could be a Sign of Dementia

Problems with Detecting Sarcasm Could be a Sign of Dementia

 

Of course, the study doesn’t mean once or twice. If someone who is older is consistently missing cues that sarcasm being used, then it’s an issue.

The study, done by University of California, had 90 participants, 77 who had some form of cognitive impairment and 13 healthy controls. The participants took part in Social Inference, a subtest of The Awareness of Social Inference Test. This is a test to see how they handle and respond to a social interaction with one person using sincerity and sarcasm to communicate.

To do this they watched a video with actors and then took a yes or no quiz. Not only were words a key focus but so was body language, the actor who is being sarcastic would use exaggerated movements to show sarcasm.

The Results

 

The results of the test showed that everyone in the group could recognize sincerity very easily. As for the sarcasm scores, they were vastly different across the cognitive impaired participants.

Though participants with Semantic Dementia did the worst. Semantic Dementia has to do with the memories and world knowledge you obtained growing up. You lose more of the general knowledge verses specific periods of time.

So the participants who have Semantic Dementia may have lost the ability to recognize sarcasm. Overall participants with different forms of dementia failed the test. Though they did do better at recognizing sincerity.

This is something important to remember when interacting with loved ones with dementia. They may take your sarcasm seriously and they may get hurt feelings.

You can read the whole study here.

Better Words for Retired

6 Different Types of Retirees

Sometimes the word retired can bring negative connotations. Some people may write off someone as insignificant when they hear the word, or maybe they aren’t sure what to talk about once they know. Some of this comes from ageism, the idea that if you are not working, you now no longer have anything to offer. But there are better words for retired.

Better Words for Retired

Better Words for Retired

 

Some popular terms are retooling, rebooting, reimagining, reinventing, but one that stands out is jubilee. This stands out no only because it breaks the “re” pattern but it’s not a word that is often brought up in conversation. The definition of jubilee is “a special anniversary of an event, especially one celebrating twenty-five or fifty years of a reign or activity.”

This can mean that maybe you chose retirement, aka to have more free time to enjoy life, rather than it being thrust upon you due to age.

Jubilee has Judeo-Christian roots, which you can find in The Bible’s Book of Leviticus. It’s linked to the number seven and tied to the ideas of a weekly Sabbath and a Sabbatical after seven years of labor. After seven sabbaticals, or 49 years, a person reaches the big one, Jubilee. In this year, The Bible says that God commands his people to stop working, forgive debts, and return family property.

Fun fact: The Queen of England celebrated her Golden Jubilee during the 50th year of her reign, in 2002.

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How to Get the Care You Want

How to Get the Care You Want

Getting healthy and staying healthy is a demanding process. Part of the process is making sure you get the right health care. For some, doctors can seem intimidating, so if they aren’t listening to you, it can be hard to speak up. Maybe you don’t want so many medications, maybe you want to try an alternative like yoga, or maybe the care is clashing with your schedule. Here are some tips on how to get the care you want.

How to Get the Care You Want

How to Get the Care You Want

 

What you want to get is person centered care, this is defined by three things:

  • providers should ask about a person’s values, goals and preferences

 

  • they should use that information to guide all aspects of the person’s care

 

  • they should do so in a coordinated and collaborative way as a health care team, including coordinating with the patient and other people the patient may want to include in the care relationship.

 

Though it can be hard to speak up, and time constrained appointments can make it even harder, do your best not to let this stop you. The first tip is to not settle for a one sided conversation.

You are in charge of your care, so if you don’t want a test done, or don’t want a certain type of treatment feel free to speak up. Your provider should give you choices and if they don’t, then maybe it’s time to find a new one.

Another tip has to do with the big picture. What do you want for your health? Everyone’s definition of healthy can be different.

Maybe it’s being able to walk with ease or not feeling pain or even having your body move easier. If you don’t know what you want, it can be hard to find the right path. This can also help with appointments because you can prepare ahead of time which can help steer the appointment in the direction you want it to go.

Also ask for your provider to keep a document of your goals in your file. This can be helpful so that you don’t have to keep repeating yourself.

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Owning a Dog Can Cut Health Risks

Owning a Dog Can Cut Health Risks

As if you needed another reason to want a fluffy companion, studies show that owning a dog can cut health risks. A dog can reduce the risk of heart disease and other fatal diseases. So not only do dogs capture our hearts, but they save them as well.

Owning a Dog Can Cut Health Risks

Owning a Dog Can Cut Health Risks

 

The study was done in Sweden, where the participants’ medical and pet ownership records were recorded. Of the 3.4 million people in the study, the average age was between 40 and 80. The study was over twelve years, where they were occasionally followed up on.

Only about 13 percent of the participants owned dogs. It’s shown that those who lived alone and had a dog decreased their chance of cardiovascular death by 36 percent.

When there were multiple people in the home, that percentage went down to 15 percent. It appears that people who live alone see more benefits because a dog can keep the loneliness away, which can be detrimental to many people.

While the study shows that dogs can help cut risks, the study can not explain how. Part of it is guessed to be because of the companionship. Having unconditional love, especially when you live alone, can be a significant boost.

Also, having a dog can keep you more physically healthy by taking your fluffy friend for a walk, playing with them, or running around with them in a dog park. It keeps a person from slowing down and becoming stagnant.

You can read more here.

Reinventing Yourself Abroad

What Age Does Your Self-Esteem Peak?

Ever been on a vacation and think about staying there forever, start a whole new life? For many American retirees that’s exactly what they do. Here’s why it might be fun to try reinventing yourself abroad.

Reinventing Yourself Abroad

Reinventing Yourself Abroad

Living abroad for a long period of time can foster new inner growth. Being in an unfamiliar terrain where you can’t act like you usually do, will cause some self reflection to happen. It can also give you a new or bigger perspective. Plus it’s always fun to interact with different cultures.

The same goes with interacting with new people. Many expats say it’s freeing to be able to create a new self that is unburdened by their past. It’s like being the new kid in school where no one knows you, so you can be anyone. Plus these new people may unlock parts of yourself that you didn’t know you had.

On a more practical note, it is easier and cheaper to live abroad, this means less stress and more time for fun. Maybe you can go back to that hobby that got left behind.

Check out the whole article here.

Taking Care of Seniors with Judy

Taking Care of Seniors with Judy

On the final segment of “Caring for Seniors” Rich and Judy discuss the difficulties that come with caring for an elderly loved one. It can be draining emotionally, physically, and financially. Between lost wages trying to provide care or investing in a community or agency that doesn’t work out, it can be hard to stay afloat. This segment focuses on taking care of seniors with Judy providing all of her collected knowledge of caring for seniors.

Taking Care of Seniors with Judy

Taking Care of Seniors with Judy

 

Recently Judy spoke to a group called the “Silver Liners” who are between the ages of 70 and 90 at a local church, Bethany Covenant. Two caregivers that work with Judy are from there and wanted to help spread information around. Which is exactly what Judy did with the Silver Liners.

A half an hour talk turned into over an hour because Judy wanted to be as helpful as possible. One question was, “What does it look like getting a service started?” and Judy believes this is the biggest stumbling block for people.

They may imagine a much bigger process than it actually is. With Seniors Helping Seniors NH, it’s a matter of getting a casual visit to talk about what the care goals are and what would you want for a schedule. Not only that, but we want to learn more about the person who is getting the care. Who are they? What do they like to do, what is their past, what’s their personality? We want to create companionship on top of our care.

To create that connection we find a caregiver that would be a perfect match for our prospective client. Once a bond has been established, that caregiver will stay with the client until they are no longer needed. This unlike most agencies who just assign caregivers randomly and someone new might show up every time. It can be a little overwhelming and hard to trust this people, in the perspective of the client.

Check out the whole segment here.

Clowning Around for Dementia Patients

Two visitors dressed in costumes visit dementia patients hoping to make them smile. Their names are Dapper Dan and Beatrice, stage names of Dikki Ellis and Ilene Weiss. They work for Vaudeville Visits, a program at Saint Barnabas Medical Center in Livingston, N.J., which is run by Healthy Humor.  They hope clowning around for dementia patients will make them feel better.

Clowning Around for Dementia Patients

Clowning Around for Dementia Patients

 

Though this duo are not your average clowns, they focus more on Vaudeville style of entertainment. They dress in a variety of costumes from a cow girl, to a used-car salesman, to “Melvis,” supposedly Elvis Presley’s brother. At one point Beatrice dressed as a bride and encourage eligible bachelors to “marry her” and for women to be her bridesmaids.

Beatrice says that they recognize the image of bride and that feeling  of joy that comes with weddings. It might also bring memories of their own wedding. They sing songs and will take requests. They try to trigger memories from the patients and try to get them to interact with them. It seems to be working because Dapper Dan and Beatrice leave patients feeling good and laughing.

A recent study in  Journal of the American Geriatrics Society  showed that clowning helped with behavioral problems with dementia patients.

“We found that after the residents interacted with the clowns for 12 weeks, there was a significant reduction in their neuropsychiatric symptoms,” said Pia Kontos, a scientist at Toronto Rehabilitation Institute and the lead author of the study. “Our study found elder clowns were just as effective as medication in bringing down aggression levels in seniors with dementia.”

Read the whole article here.

98 Year Old Mother Moved into the Same Community to Take Care of her Son

98 Year Old Mother Moved into the Same Community as her Son

As a wise woman named Ada Keating, says, “You never stop being a mum.” This is spectacularly true for Ada, who has an 80-year-old son named Tom. Tom is in an assisted living community, and Keating decided she was going with him. The 98-year-old mother moved into the same community as her son.

98 Year Old Mother Moved into the Same Community as her Son

98 Year Old Mother Moved into the Same Community as Her Son

 

Tom moved into Moss View because he needed more support. This can be a hard decision for some people. If you are having trouble bringing it up to your loved one, check out 7 Ways to Start the Senior Living Talk.

Ada, a widow, and mother of three other kids followed him. They enjoy playing games together and watching TV. Ada wishes Tom a good morning and good night every day.

Tom is happy to be able to spend more time with his mom and loves to give her big hugs. Age does not stop Ada from occasionally scolding Tom and telling him to behave himself.

The duo is popular on the internet as their sweet story spreads. This duo goes to prove that a mother’s love is never-ending.

Read the whole article here.

Single People are Concerned About End of Life Arrangements

Dogs in Funeral Homes

Older single people are concerned about end of life arrangements. End of life arrangements can be difficult to think about, let alone execute. Then there is the matter of taking care of their affects after the fact. Many don’t want to place the burden on their loved ones and are worried what’s going to happen. Here are some tips to ease single people’s mind.

Single People are Concerned About End of Life Arrangements

Single People are Concerned About End of Life Arrangements

 

Try to pre-plan your own funeral arrangements. Many people say they want to but few actually do. A research study by the Funeral and Memorial Information Council said “69 percent of adults over the age of 40 indicated they would prefer to pre-arrange their own service; however, only 17 percent had made arrangements.”

Married or not married this is helpful because you will know that it’s taken care of and there will be less stress for everyone involved. Check out cemeteries and funeral homes to check out pricing and planning options. Don’t be afraid to take advantage of experts.

Talk about last wishes with people you trust, whether friends or siblings. Have a discussion about how you would like to be remembered. You can even bring someone you trust with you as you tour cemeteries and funeral homes. Try to be okay with death and that one day you will die. It will hard but hopefully preplanning things will bring you peace of mind.

Check out the whole article here.